Thursday, April 25, 2013

Bloom: Finding Beauty in the Unexpected

"Nella is going to bring together our family like never before."
~Bloom, Kelle Hampton


Being a mother has been the most profound experience of my life, and has transformed my life significantly.  There is nothing akin to bringing new life into the world, and the joy of raising children is unparalleled.  When I was contemplating motherhood, I would sometimes see parents with children who had Down syndrome, and my eyes would begin to fill with tears as I wondered how it would feel to be in their shoes.

Published in 2010, Bloom: Finding Beauty in the Unexpected by writer and photographer Kelle Hampton is a candid, absorbing, and emotive memoir.  This book touched me very deeply.  It made me cry quite a bit, for many reasons.  I felt the pain of this young mother as she discovers that her second baby, Nella, has Down syndrome.  I wept frequently because the author is so honest about her feelings and apprehensions about raising a child with Down syndrome.  I cried and I cried and I cried as I read (I seemed to have picked up Cryderman cry-ability while reading this book).  I also cried because like Brett, Lainey, Austyn, Brandyn, "Rik and Kris", Heidi, Katie, Dr. Foley, and everyone else featured in this book, I fell in love with Baby Nella, and I wanted to protect her.

Although I do not have a child with Down syndrome, and I do not mean to minimize the uniqueness of this memoir, the experience of giving birth and of being a mother is in many ways universal, and I felt a real kinship with Kelle, who, as a mother, simply wants the best for her children and family.  She worries about how the new baby will affect her two-year-old daughter, Lainey, as well as her stepsons, Austyn and Brandyn.  Kelle struggles to accept the unexpected, and this memoir covers the first year with Nella, which is an emotional, inspiring journey.  Surrounded by loving family and friends, Kelle recovers quickly from her initial shock, and grows stronger and more optimistic about the future.  A shift in thinking occurs: Nella is not so much a special needs child, but rather, a very special child.  And she's greatly loved by many.




What an incredible book this is!  Photos are an essential part of catching the fleeting moments of babyhood and childhood, and the photos in Bloom are exceptionally beautiful.  Bloom brought back memories of when my own children were babies and small children. Those were such happy days!  (Yes, they were rather demanding at times, but they were also suffused with immeasurable love and joy.)  Kelle Hampton manages to capture great heaps of this mother-joy in her memoir.  Children enhance the richness of life in a spectacular way.  I highly recommend this book, especially to mothers.  It's all about love.   Bloom is a book brimming with exquisite beauty!

Kelle Hampton is also a blogger!  She has a blog about motherhood called Enjoying the Small Things.  She's also an advocate for people with Down syndrome.


Special thanks to Trish from TLC for providing me with a copy of Bloom, and for including me in this book tour.  For more reviews of this touching memoir, please visit the other stops on TLC's Bloom book tour

18 comments:

  1. Oh my gosh this story sounds amazing! I have the feeling that I'd be crying if I read this too even though I'm not a mom. Thank you so much for sharing!


    I love your beautiful flowers. I'm so glad it's spring and all the beautiful tulips and daffodils are blooming here!

    Thanks again for sharing your thoughts and for posting about my blogiversary giveaway!

    xoxo,
    Renee C.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Renee, it is a very touching book. Thanks so much for stopping by!

      Delete
  2. Isn't this book gorgeous? I so appreciated Hampton's honesty in writing it.

    ReplyDelete
  3. Kathy, this book is both honest and gorgeous. I revisited your review of Bloom and watched the book trailer you posted. Thanks for stopping by!

    ReplyDelete
  4. This sounds like an amazing read! I don't read a lot of memoirs but this is one that I definitely want to make time for! It just sounds like one that I can't resist. What a lovely review :)

    ReplyDelete
  5. This really sounds like a great and emotional book. I like the idea that it includes pictures.

    The quote, "Nella is not so much a special needs child, but rather, a very special child." contains much wisdom.

    ReplyDelete
  6. This sounds wonderful! I know it would made me cry buckets. I liked that you showed a pic of the inside of the book. Thanks for the great review!

    ReplyDelete
  7. I know a few families with a Downs child and they are really special people. Lovely review, Suko.

    ReplyDelete
  8. Not normally a fan of memoirs but as I've worked with adults with Downs Syndrome I feel I'd find this interesting. Great review, thanks for the recommendation.

    ReplyDelete
  9. I don't really read memoirs like this, but it does sound very emotional and fascinating. Great review!

    ReplyDelete
  10. I didn't realise Bloom had pictures, what a special additional touch. This sounds like a memoir I would enjoy, emotional but beautiful.

    ReplyDelete
  11. Bloom sounds like an emotional and special read. I'd be crying my eyes out if I read it. I think adding pictures must give it a nice touch. Great post!

    ReplyDelete
  12. I'm glad you enjoyed this book! It looks like a beautiful read.

    Thanks for being a part of the tour.

    ReplyDelete
  13. The cover image is adorable. We have friends whose second daughter has downs syndrome. She is such a treasure even through the heart ache. Thanks for sharing.

    ReplyDelete
  14. Thank you all for taking the time to leave a comment. More comments are welcomed!

    ReplyDelete
  15. I like a lot, your post, Suko and I understand your thoughts about motherhood.

    ReplyDelete
  16. Every time I visit this author's blog, I get sucked in to reading WAY more than I intended. She's a great writer and her honesty is really refreshing.

    ReplyDelete

Your comments make this site lively! Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment. I value each one, and will respond to questions.

If you're entering a giveaway, please leave your e-mail address (or a link that leads to it).

Blog header by Held Design

BLOG ARCHIVE









Some of the books reviewed here are given
to me free of charge by authors, publishers, and
agents.



I'm honored to be an Amazon Associate. If you
make a purchase from Amazon through a link on
this site, I'll earn a small advertising fee. Many
thanks to those who place orders through my site!